Hi scaredyet,
We are terribly sorry to hear about the challenges and troubles. Could you please let us know if we were directly contacted about the fitment issues? I say this because, we have sold hundred of these kits over the years and several of them installed by us, we would certainly have been able to help out if the instructions on the website were of no use.
Is there a chance that you could give us an order number/name that was used for the order.
If you have any other questions, please do not hesitate to ask.
Kind regards,
Michael